tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8840706572296442429.post7049757189850005693..comments2023-10-29T09:38:58.821+00:00Comments on For Nine Pounds - An Analogue Blog: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless mindIdiothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04779802480127180504noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8840706572296442429.post-55550155224054650812007-12-13T22:45:00.000+00:002007-12-13T22:45:00.000+00:00MW, I wouldn't like to change the past but would d...MW, I wouldn't like to change the past but would dearly love to change how I react in the present as a result of my past.Bonnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16010986736813010003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8840706572296442429.post-56453305508127101082007-12-13T00:54:00.000+00:002007-12-13T00:54:00.000+00:00I do believe that Idiot, I really do (btw when is ...I do believe that Idiot, I really do (btw when is Aoife gonna write for us???) And moving forwards and changing is painful but that's life. I am living positively, but at times the Pharmaton capsule is appealing. I have avoided booze because I was afraid I'd jus drown myself in jack Daniels! Glad to hear your life worked out so well!<BR/><BR/>Voodoo, you are very sweet (sorry to hear you won't write for us) And I do talk to friends and my blog is actually a great support!<BR/><BR/>Jo, you do learn from your mistakes, of course you do, problem is like the rest of us you make different ones then!Midget Wranglerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05114529056109093110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8840706572296442429.post-7377750371357527902007-12-13T00:23:00.000+00:002007-12-13T00:23:00.000+00:00Every single step, decision, movement, thought, ex...Every single step, decision, movement, thought, experience brings you to exactly the point in life that you are right now. Had I not split with my wife I would not have met Aoife, moved jobs, moved house and god knows what else. Everything has an opposite, so if you are down there will be an up, if you are confused you will be clear etc. These shitty times really do make you stronger. Wish there was a better way, like a pharmaton capsule but hey ho, there you go :)Idiothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04779802480127180504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8840706572296442429.post-87855999689801087392007-12-12T23:17:00.000+00:002007-12-12T23:17:00.000+00:00I love LOVE this movie. It is actually a favourite...I love LOVE this movie. It is actually a favourite of both mine and my partners. I really enjoyed everyone in this movie particularly Winslet and Tom Wilkinson. I really have a thing for the sliver fox it seems! <BR/><BR/>In relation to the subject matter, I don't think it is ever a good idea to want to forget, or push things to the back of your mind. You learn and grow from all your life experiences. With the good, comes the bad and although it is hard to accept it's just a fact of life. <BR/><BR/>I have a tendancy to feel a bit low myself for various reasons. I think talking it out helps me the most, be it with fella, family or friends. Or indeed a friendly blog~Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8840706572296442429.post-28411127381711998832007-12-12T22:45:00.000+00:002007-12-12T22:45:00.000+00:00I don't! 'She didn't learn her lesson' will be wri...I don't! 'She didn't learn her lesson' will be written on my gravestone!Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08988685736635515808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8840706572296442429.post-34704064852279715502007-12-12T14:55:00.000+00:002007-12-12T14:55:00.000+00:00I love the use of words like "actively" "proactive...I love the use of words like "actively" "proactive" I know exactly what you mean though, but for some people in the film the quick fix works well enough! I suppose everyone is different! <BR/>So people never learn from things taht happen in their lives do they?Midget Wranglerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05114529056109093110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8840706572296442429.post-9755447706170771632007-12-12T14:30:00.000+00:002007-12-12T14:30:00.000+00:00I thought the film was saying that it's not possib...I thought the film was saying that it's not possible to act an artificial quick fix. You can't just erase stuff that happened to you, you have to resolve it yourself, actively.Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08988685736635515808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8840706572296442429.post-3318727299586251092007-12-12T14:23:00.000+00:002007-12-12T14:23:00.000+00:00Sorry to hear that you had to experience that Polk...Sorry to hear that you had to experience that Polka! <BR/><BR/>I of course wasn't in a relationship that was abusive, but you are right it has made me the wonderful human being I am today!<BR/><BR/>The good times were so good, I wouldn't want to forget those!Midget Wranglerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05114529056109093110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8840706572296442429.post-72461669137752328922007-12-12T14:14:00.000+00:002007-12-12T14:14:00.000+00:00I was in a shite relationship for 3 years (abusive...I was in a shite relationship for 3 years (abusive, in the end). Would I want to erase that? No. Cause it's made me who I am today. Tho I loathe the man, and when I was last in LA, I kept looking over my shoulder, afraid to run into him. I saw his doppelganger on the street in Dublin a couple years ago, talk about frightening!<BR/><BR/>Anyway, no. Your past experiences are what make you whole.PolkaDothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07760855421957187566noreply@blogger.com