This is a long over due post, and I am happy to post it! As all of our bloggers know there has been trouble at the old mill recently! You all know that Someone and I were a couple, and that now we are not together anymore. But for some reason, Irish sensibilities perhaps, we have all ignored the fact that the two people who started the blog are no longer together!
OH MY GOD, THERE IS AN ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM!
Now as the wronged party (come on that's funny) I am asking you guys to just greet the elephant and then move on! I know it's hard guys, and I know you have your anger, born out of loyalty to me, but I am asking that you can all move on, that we can all move on!
I know that there has been some funny vibes, some uncertainty about what is ok and what isn't, which side should we take? Well I'd like to clear the air, call us crazy but we aspire to the stars, we aspire to friendship and a healthy relationship for our children. I'm sure everyone would agree that while it is difficult to aspire to it's still the best thing to aspire to. We both want to be able to be in our childrens lives, with our new partners, or not, but there, and accepting of the others life choices! I will always love Someone, he has been my friend since I was 16, and I will not disregard that time as meaningless or not worthy of comment. Life is short and I will not disregard what I've experienced in the last 16 years. I assume that this feling is mutual (go on comment....I dare you, don't think it can be used in court :-)
So the thrust of this post...apart from the fact that you now know all my earlier sex posts were about someone and I is that I am hoping that we can all socialise together. I want the blog awards to be fun, for us all, Someone and I will be there, with our new partners (I hope) and I would ask our lovely friends to overcome the urge to be negative and just support our decision to aim for the stars! If we manage to touch the stars we'll drag you guys with us!